It’s question month, as y’all probably know and I actually got some questions this year!  Yay me!

Florida Dom had a few.  He asked:

–How painful is the cutting on your back and do you get comments about it when you go to the beach?

The cutting itself is done with a scalpel and it’s really not all that painful.  I wince and hiss a little bit but compared to most things we do it’s a breeze.  Relaxing, actually.  I get in a really nice headspace if I can lay down while we do it – though most times Taylor has me sit up and it’s more of a challenge to stay still and not fidget so I stay clear headed.

The scaring isn’t all that evident when it’s not freshly cut though you can defintely see it more when I have a tan or when he’s been flogging my back.  I’ve yet to get any comments on it, though.  Probably because compared to my often pink hair, my tattoos and labret piercing it’s just not very noticable.  I have gotten comments when it’s fairly fresh or scabbed but most of them were along the lines of “ooh,that’s coo” from the goth/emo crowd. :)

–You said in the past you haven’t been beaten hard enough that you can’t sit down. Did Taylor see that as a challenge and has he solved that problem?

Yanno, Taylor didn’t see it as a challenge and I remain a “not able to sit down due to spanking” virgin.  

I’ve had some hellacious bruises on my butt and it’s been sore enough that I’ve howled when it rubbed against the floor as we were fucking but that intensity never stays with me.  

I honestly think to beat me hard enough that I couldn’t sit down for an extended time might be damaging.  My pain tolerance to things like the bite of a whip or the snarl of a cane isn’t amazingly high.  But lingering pain?  Nagging, constant pain?  I can take that forever and a day.  Probably cuz I’ve had so much of it due to purely vanilla, medical reasons.
–You said you’ve been with Taylor for seven years. Were you owned by anybody else before that?

I had a long distance relationship that lasted a few years before Taylor and I got together.  I considered myself owned at the time but I”ll admit it was nothing at all like being live in is!

Before that I had mostly play based relationships with a very D/s dynamic but no feeling of ownership or belonging *to* someone.
–You said you took the labia piercings out because it was difficult to shave. Does Taylor want you to shave or do you like to do it?

I’ve been shaving since before it was cool but if I didn’t want to it wouldn’t matter.  Taylor hates pubic hair.  (Though I’ll admit he fairly leniant about it and doesn’t freak out over a few days growth)
–How often do you and Taylor do a scene?

Not very often.  :(  We used to scene more but now that my son is in his mid teens it’s really, really difficult to do anything at all when he’s around.  We have a small flat and almost no privacy. 

We generally do a long, drawn out scene once a month at a local play party where we can haul out floggers and whips that we don’t have space to use at home.  Other than that our play consists of impromtu spankings and a lot of rough sex.

And Melissa asked:

-What are you thinking when he fucks you in the ass?

And that’s a tough one cuz the answer varies.

Sometimes I think and worry about whether it’s going to be messy or not.  

Sometimes I think about wanting more lube.

Sometimes I think about what an asshole he is and how neglected my pussy is at the moment.  (He tends to go thru phases where he ONLY wants to ass fuck me)

Sometimes I think about foreplay and whether I can actually remember what it is.  lol.

Sometimes I think about how used I feel when it’s a painful, I’m not digging this sort of day.

Sometimes I just suck my thumb and think about how amazing it feels.

Ass sex is the one thing that is different every time we do it and my response can really never be predicted.

Awesome questions, you guys.  It was fun answering them. Let me know if I didn’t give a complete enough answer and I”ll try to clarify for ya. 

Remember, you can ask away all thru March and I promise to answer – even if it’s a tough one!

And now I”m off for a nap.  I had the worst nights sleep.