Comments on: Blah to the blah dee dah

By: CarrieAnn

CarrieAnn — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 01:31:17 +0000

Nah. I get that way sometimes too. It’s all phases and ebb and flow.

Next week I’ll probably be bitching cuz he hasn’t pulled my hair or hurt me in awhile and I’ll be determined that it’s all his fault and he sucks. Heh.

By: subtle

subtle — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 06:27:06 +0000

I swing violenting from feeling absolutely okay about not feeling the twinges (and in fact, prefering not to have them) to feeling ‘wtf am I doing if it’s not about the twinges??’

For me, I’m much better if there is absolutely nothing as opposed to a little bit here and there. It makes it easier to ‘forget’ and I don’t have to go through the withdrawal thing every time.

Strange, isn’t it?
.-= subtle´s last blog ..Proving yourself =-.

By: brooke

brooke — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 05:36:06 +0000

I am glad you posted on this topic. I am struggling with the fact that I do still miss the bold displays of dominance. I wish I didn't, but I do. It gives me hope to read this and see that someday I may be okay without it. .-= brooke´s last blog ..America’s Next Top Slut =-.

By: Laurel

Laurel — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 18:46:58 +0000

This is what I’ve always admired about you and Taylor. I love the fact that you are grounded in reality and don’t spend much time on the contrived theatricals of protocol. When you do things that would be defined as protocols or outward acts of domination and such it just seems natural and real to me.

I think that’s why I often bristle as the use of “master” and “this girl” and other such typical BDSM language. It seems forced (Not all the time or with everyone, mind you, but often).

I like your way. It’s more real to me than most of what I see.
(And the rest of you are absolutely entitled to do what makes you happy of course. I’m not suggesting anyone change their behavior to please me, so no hate mail, please.)
.-= Laurel´s last blog ..What should I do with my life? =-.

By: Eliot

Eliot — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 18:15:26 +0000

Either way, it sounds like a fun weekend. Road trip!! .-= Eliot´s last blog ..Tie HNT 2.0 =-.

By: wendiana

wendiana — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 17:42:51 +0000

Balance is good. I understand the ‘mourning’ feel, but those twinges are awfully nice when you get zapped into “whoa, where did THAT come from?” But then again, you’ve been doing this much longer & know what to expect with the hills, valleys & plateaus. It appears that you are just happy with your life. ;)

Awesomesauce about your dream jobbie! Sounds like you are enjoying it. It’s a great feeling when you love what you do.

My youngest just left for g’ma’s for overnight, now I need to ditch the girl teen…but she doesn’t really have anywhere to go. lol. And then I’d need to pry J. away from his computer & I’ve not figured out how to do that yet…and he’s ignoring all my so-subtle-attempts at flirting. lol.

By: Amber

Amber — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 15:43:48 +0000

You’re the second blogger I’ve read today discussing the topic of how being sub or pick-yer-word is not about the protocol but just *being* it. And how once the protocol was so important to us that we thought the jumping through hoops part was the appeal. Until we find out it really wasn’t about that after all.

Not that the extra glitteries are not fun; they are. But they are not the heart of it.

Very interesting. I’m still chewing on it. :)
.-= Amber´s last blog ..The Golden Calf =-.