Abuse
Those of us in D/s relationships have super human anti abuse cloaks which can be defeated only by unobtainium stolen from giant blue fairy things.
Read MoreOut of Sync
People are all spacey and smiley when they're done playing or giggling and comparing bruises. My fantasies and needs run more toward a torture scene than "The Secretary".
Read MoreRisk.
There is always the risk, the risk that this one thing or this cumulative pile of things will be the one that hurts too much, that breaks me - body, heart, mind... me.
Read MoreItch, Bitch, Chicken
The one where I say I'm losing my mind at least four times... Shouldn't it be gone by now? And me in a happy place, drooling on myself?
Read MoreTone
Whoa. I just had a conversation with someone and it made me realize… Some people, when they talk, really have no clue how they sound. If you often have to say “I didn’t mean it like that” or “that’s not what I said/meant” or “what? why are you looking at me like that?”… You are probably in that club. Or? You’re lying. And you meant it. Which means you suck – not only for being mean or whateves but for lying,...
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