Weekend was fab. Play party was fun….

I remember a time when I would get itchy and twitchy for pain. It would gnaw at me, tear at me, cause me to become manic and wild eyed with the need.

Ok. I have NO idea what’s up with my photo plug in but it’s doing weird stuff on that last post. So.  Take two.
Flopped out on the bed with the laptoppy.  See the purty cupping bruises?  Ignore the fat ass. :P
Cupping was way more fun than I thought it would be.  Relaxing…  right up until [...]

So I’m cruising around FetLife this morning and I’m all blinking at my monitor, making gaping fish faces and pretty much sitting here slack jawed.
Holy hell.
There are a whole lot of people I like on Fet but, for the most part, it’s become a cesspit of retardation.
I read no less than ten posts in my [...]

You know Rayne from Insatiable Desire? Her post went up late and she needs some folks to help her play catch up!
Go take a look at her contest entry story over on Extreme Restraints and give her a chance to win, eh?  All those folks had a head start so she deserves some of our love [...]

So I was cruising around FetLife, looking for something to inspire a rant or some deep thought or…  whatever.  Cuz, yanno, life in the Taylor y puss casa has been damned quiet and normal and uneventful for a damned long time.  (For those who may not know, puss = me.  Taylor calls me puss)  And [...]

So I log in to FetLife today – which I no longer do each and every day cuz I’m flippin’ busy, man – and the first things I see on my front page?
“People who think dog rape is a-ok” and “Another day, another shoot at Kink”.
Wandering over to my groups I found “Is slave a [...]

I have nothing worthwhile to say today.  I’m tired. Worn out.  Sunburned to the lobster point. Quite spacey. Dehydrated a bit.  Achy.  Unfit company for intelligent human beings.
I’ll share some pics, though
This is Lake Michigan. We rode along the lake for a bit yesterday on our 5 hour bike ride.

Could those of ya who have been having a hard time with comments try another one when you get a chance so I can see if the “fixes” I made worked? I’d love you very much!
xoxo

Normally, I’m one of those girls who really likes her marks and bruises.  Welts and scabs and rainbows of purple, red, green and yellow – and the constant pressing and picking at those marks – make me feel happy.  They remind me of whatever activity caused them and the lingering pain keeps me slightly aroused.
That [...]

I just took a four hour nap. What do you think the chances I’m going to actually fall asleep tonight are?
Yeah.
Shit.
I was all worn out and feeling like crap but I really should have gone for a walk instead of napping.
Oh well. Maybe I’ll get a decent blog or review done [...]

Headspace.  Remembering your place. Blah blah blah.  Yet another topic I’ve grown weary of.  (So, yes, I talk about it more.  How much sense does that make?)
I think I used to put a lot of importance on the little things, the direct dominance type stuff that would put me in the proper headspace to do [...]

And not the good kind, either!
It’s my aching feet!
Went to our friend’s wedding yesterday and I was in 4 inch heels from noon until midnight.  Pointy little heels on strappy little sandles.
I normally only wear heels that high, IF that high, in clunky boots so my poor feet are not used to this torture.
Oh well. It [...]

So, if you follow kaya around on Fetlife you’re bound to come across some of the funniest and snarkiest and gobsmacking-ist topics. Which, of course, make the best blog fodder.
Today I came across one dealing with rules; Masters rules vs community/group rules and which rules take precedence.
And I’m all…
Duh.
Why the fuck would I be involved [...]

So.  FetLife.  Again, it has me pondering.  I may not participate there much but, I swear to gods, whenever I visit I end up with a blog post.
Lately there have been some discussions about who comes first; child, master or self.
And I’m kind of floored at the responses.
I mean, first of all, the woman who [...]

I always say I’m pretty sucky at giving advice to newcomers to BDSM, D/s and M/s.  
I’m too logical, too blunt, and too far away from that excited, frenzied feeling of newness to have any patience for it.
Luna, however, is not.
In fact, I want to point you in her direction.  Not only does she have [...]

Well, Laurel has been complaining about the lack of adult visuals on the new blog theme…
But I’m actually posting this for curious msscyntilating who commented about a broken picture link.
These are my old nipple piercings. (12 G)
The ones that refused to co-operate and heal right when I had them and still refuse to heal now [...]

So last night I ran Taylor a bath loaded with bubbles, handed him an erotic book and left him to soak for a bit.  While he was in there, I scrambled around lighting a zillion candles (including a massage candle) in our bedroom and putting a soft red sheet over the regular bedding to protect [...]

 
I can’t rave enough about the Sensuous Soak Kit I received from Babeland.
The minute it was offered for review I knew I’d use this more for Taylor than myself.  Giving him baths is one of my favorite services and, while we already have one of the Body Spa Vibrating Sponges that is included in the kit, [...]

Every time I see a discussion titled slave vs submissive, I damned near get lock jaw from clenching my teeth so hard.
I am not about to get into the debate regarding what the difference is.  As far as I’m concerned, there freakin’ isn’t one.  Not in the way most folks mean when they talk about [...]

(Were you humming along with the title?  I was.)
Taylor and I were talkin’ this morning.  I was telling him about a blog I read and how I used to get all insecure when I read it, like I wasn’t doing it as “right” as this person was.  How even when they had struggles it was [...]

 
Yeah, I got some.  In fact, I slept until nearly one in the afternoon today.  But why, you may ask, when I went to bed at like….  oh…  NINE last night?
 
In a word — Taylor.
See, I’m out of ambien.  This is a huge bummer because I’m a chronic insomniac (and have been most of my [...]

Not a whole lot going on over here.
It’s Spring so it’s raining and gloomy far more often than it’s sunny and bright.  And to think I used to like Spring best.  Is it me or has it changed?  May feels more like March used to.  *le sigh*
Remind me to take my vitamin D since it [...]

Buy yourself something. Buy your mom something. Buy your girl something. 
All sextoys for women as well as lingerie 20% off with the code singformom.
Yay for mom’s day!
(code is good thru May 14th)

I’m sure it comes as absolutely NO surprise to any of you that I want the Hello Kitty vibrator.  It doesn’t, does it?  Probably a bunch of you want it, too.  Cuz, Hello Kitty is the cutest thing EVER.
But, okay… hello!…  Babeland is also doing a really cool contest revolving around the Hello Kitty vibe. [...]