Fifty Shades of Whinging

July 9, 2013 By In BDSM 7 Comments

I first heard of the 50 Shades books from a vanilla friend of mine on Facebook. She must have been really on the ball, must have read them as soon as they came out, because it was way before I started to see anything 50 Shades related on my Twitter feed (which is filled with

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Abuse

September 22, 2010 By In BDSM 4 Comments

Those of us in D/s relationships have super human anti abuse cloaks which can be defeated only by unobtainium stolen from giant blue fairy things.

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Out of Sync

July 25, 2010 By In BDSM 1 Comment

People are all spacey and smiley when they’re done playing or giggling and comparing bruises. My fantasies and needs run more toward a torture scene than “The Secretary”.

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Risk.

June 30, 2010 By In BDSM 4 Comments

There is always the risk, the risk that this one thing or this cumulative pile of things will be the one that hurts too much, that breaks me – body, heart, mind… me.

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Itch, Bitch, Chicken

June 28, 2010 By In BDSM 7 Comments

The one where I say I’m losing my mind at least four times…
Shouldn’t it be gone by now? And me in a happy place, drooling on myself?

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Tone

May 12, 2010 By In BDSM 1 Comment

Whoa. I just had a conversation with someone and it made me realize… Some people, when they talk, really have no clue how they sound. If you often have to say “I didn’t mean it like that” or “that’s not what I said/meant” or “what? why are you looking at me like that?”… You are

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Spirals

April 12, 2010 By In BDSM 8 Comments

Maybe I’m already insane.

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ow!

January 18, 2010 By In BDSM 3 Comments

Weekend was fab. Play party was fun….

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Silent Screams

December 27, 2009 By In BDSM 6 Comments

I remember a time when I would get itchy and twitchy for pain. It would gnaw at me, tear at me, cause me to become manic and wild eyed with the need.

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Cupping, take two

September 20, 2009 By In BDSM 4 Comments

Ok. I have NO idea what’s up with my photo plug in but it’s doing weird stuff on that last post. So.  Take two. Flopped out on the bed with the laptoppy.  See the purty cupping bruises?  Ignore the fat ass. :P Cupping was way more fun than I thought it would be.  Relaxing…  right

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Oh, look. I found something to say. Nevermind that I also lost it…

August 23, 2009 By In BDSM, Love 3 Comments

So I was cruising around FetLife, looking for something to inspire a rant or some deep thought or…  whatever.  Cuz, yanno, life in the Taylor y puss casa has been damned quiet and normal and uneventful for a damned long time.  (For those who may not know, puss = me.  Taylor calls me puss)  And

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FetLife, Snark and Oreos

June 26, 2009 By In Babble, BDSM, Life 6 Comments

So I log in to FetLife today – which I no longer do each and every day cuz I’m flippin’ busy, man – and the first things I see on my front page? “People who think dog rape is a-ok” and “Another day, another shoot at Kink”. Wandering over to my groups I found “Is

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My weekend in snapshots

June 21, 2009 By In BDSM, Life, Love 5 Comments

I have nothing worthwhile to say today.  I’m tired. Worn out.  Sunburned to the lobster point. Quite spacey. Dehydrated a bit.  Achy.  Unfit company for intelligent human beings. I’ll share some pics, though This is Lake Michigan. We rode along the lake for a bit yesterday on our 5 hour bike ride.

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Huge favor!

June 20, 2009 By In BDSM 19 Comments

Could those of ya who have been having a hard time with comments try another one when you get a chance so I can see if the “fixes” I made worked? I’d love you very much! xoxo

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Cuz you always wanted to hear about my sore lip

June 17, 2009 By In Babble, BDSM 12 Comments

Normally, I’m one of those girls who really likes her marks and bruises.  Welts and scabs and rainbows of purple, red, green and yellow – and the constant pressing and picking at those marks – make me feel happy.  They remind me of whatever activity caused them and the lingering pain keeps me slightly aroused.

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Shit

June 16, 2009 By In BDSM 3 Comments

I just took a four hour nap. What do you think the chances I’m going to actually fall asleep tonight are? Yeah. Shit. I was all worn out and feeling like crap but I really should have gone for a walk instead of napping. Oh well. Maybe I’ll get a decent blog or review done

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What starts as a ranty thought peters out into babble.

Headspace.  Remembering your place. Blah blah blah.  Yet another topic I’ve grown weary of.  (So, yes, I talk about it more.  How much sense does that make?) I think I used to put a lot of importance on the little things, the direct dominance type stuff that would put me in the proper headspace to

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Ouch. Ouch. Ouchouchouch.

June 14, 2009 By In BDSM 1 Comment

And not the good kind, either! It’s my aching feet! Went to our friend’s wedding yesterday and I was in 4 inch heels from noon until midnight.  Pointy little heels on strappy little sandles. I normally only wear heels that high, IF that high, in clunky boots so my poor feet are not used to this

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WotD: Gobsmacking-ist

So, if you follow kaya around on Fetlife you’re bound to come across some of the funniest and snarkiest and gobsmacking-ist topics. Which, of course, make the best blog fodder. Today I came across one dealing with rules; Masters rules vs community/group rules and which rules take precedence. And I’m all… Duh. Why the fuck

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A Step in a Great Direction

May 28, 2009 By In BDSM 3 Comments

I always say I’m pretty sucky at giving advice to newcomers to BDSM, D/s and M/s.   I’m too logical, too blunt, and too far away from that excited, frenzied feeling of newness to have any patience for it. Luna, however, is not. In fact, I want to point you in her direction.  Not only

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Boobs on the front page? Oh noes!

May 22, 2009 By In BDSM 9 Comments

Well, Laurel has been complaining about the lack of adult visuals on the new blog theme… But I’m actually posting this for curious msscyntilating who commented about a broken picture link. These are my old nipple piercings. (12 G) The ones that refused to co-operate and heal right when I had them and still refuse

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Chill, man

May 22, 2009 By In BDSM, Love 4 Comments

So last night I ran Taylor a bath loaded with bubbles, handed him an erotic book and left him to soak for a bit.  While he was in there, I scrambled around lighting a zillion candles (including a massage candle) in our bedroom and putting a soft red sheet over the regular bedding to protect

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Just be

Every time I see a discussion titled slave vs submissive, I damned near get lock jaw from clenching my teeth so hard. I am not about to get into the debate regarding what the difference is.  As far as I’m concerned, there freakin’ isn’t one.  Not in the way most folks mean when they talk

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I feel good. I knew that I would.

May 18, 2009 By In BDSM, Love 2 Comments

(Were you humming along with the title?  I was.) Taylor and I were talkin’ this morning.  I was telling him about a blog I read and how I used to get all insecure when I read it, like I wasn’t doing it as “right” as this person was.  How even when they had struggles it

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Made up words and not much else

May 13, 2009 By In Babble, BDSM 5 Comments

Not a whole lot going on over here. It’s Spring so it’s raining and gloomy far more often than it’s sunny and bright.  And to think I used to like Spring best.  Is it me or has it changed?  May feels more like March used to.  *le sigh* Remind me to take my vitamin D

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