Just be

Every time I see a discussion titled slave vs submissive, I damned near get lock jaw from clenching my teeth so hard. I am not about to get into the debate regarding what the difference is.  As far as I’m concerned, there freakin’ isn’t one.  Not in the way most folks mean when they talk […]

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I feel good. I knew that I would.

(Were you humming along with the title?  I was.) Taylor and I were talkin’ this morning.  I was telling him about a blog I read and how I used to get all insecure when I read it, like I wasn’t doing it as “right” as this person was.  How even when they had struggles it […]

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Made up words and not much else

Not a whole lot going on over here. It’s Spring so it’s raining and gloomy far more often than it’s sunny and bright.  And to think I used to like Spring best.  Is it me or has it changed?  May feels more like March used to.  *le sigh* Remind me to take my vitamin D […]

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Happy Mother’s Day

Buy yourself something. Buy your mom something. Buy your girl something.  All sextoys for women as well as lingerie 20% off with the code singformom. Yay for mom’s day! (code is good thru May 14th)

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Seriousness

How do you all feel about gossip and rumors and the whole “black list”, warning people about others, thing? I’ve always been kind of on the fence until I recently had some gossip about Taylor kind of blow up in my face. I’m not going to deny I gossip as much as the next person. […]

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Day 6 (plus all pic slideshow)

Of the amazing healing journey. And here’s all the pics, in video/slideshow format. I think it’s safe to say I can stop taking them now. I R Healed.

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Middle of the Night and I got nothin’

No, really. I have nothing. Well, ok, I have a snarky, ranting, totally outraged post brewing in my head but it’ll have to wait.  I’m too tired. I”m only posting to add my “let’s see how Carrie heals” picture of the day and to thank Coyote’s kitten for the Sexy Blogger meme/award thingy.  Which I”ll totally […]

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Day 3

Still keeping track of the healing process. I can honestly say this is the first time I have ever had a bruise like that on my back. Damned woman and her “I can take it” talk! Heh. I have to admit I’m enjoying it. Something about bruises really turns my crank. Keepin’ ‘em thumbnail so […]

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Ouch.

Eh… So I pretty much feel like I got run over by a bus.  Did a lot of absolutely nothing today – other than the grocery shopping I didn’t do yesterday and Taylor was kind enough to take me on the bike.  Walking half a mile home – while it’s not that far normally – […]

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Floggers and Scourges and Whips, Oh my (updated)

Nothing really to say today. Gonna be lazy, drink coffee all day and curl up with my book in an attempt to not…  move…  much. A picture speaks a thousand words, right? Last night: And fun was had by all. Today: I am bruised and stiff and HUNGRY and sleepy as hell. I ordered a […]

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Self awareness doesn’t always equal calm

Every time I know we’re going to a play party I get in this mild sort of panic all day. I’m not certain panic is the right word. I get nervous and apprehensive and excited.  I start to wonder – and want to know – what Taylor has planned, what he’s going to do to me. […]

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Stuff and fluff

We’ve got a busy weekend coming up; celebrating a friend’s birthday tonight and a play party tomorrow.  I’m not totally out of winter hibernation mode so part of me is like “yay!” and part of me keeps saying ‘meh. I dun wanna leave the house”. We’ll have fun, of course, and I’ll be glad to […]

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I haz questions

For you guys, this time! How many of you read blogs in a feed reader? If it’s a summary view, do you go visit the actual blog? Or skip it? How about on the front page of the blog itself – Do y’all prefer full posts? Or summaries so you can see more posts at […]

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Feeds…

I’ve been having some issues with my RSS on the site so if it isn’t working for you, just head to the bottom of the sidebar and click the subscribe icon.  That should fix it. Sorry, folks, if this causes ya any inconvenience. :(

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Want to help?

Consider giving a little of your time, money or even clothing donations if you’re in the NYC area.  

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Please…

Go read this. Then do it.  Please. Under His Hand Kaya and I have a friend – you may know her, as well, though I’m not at liberty to name names – who has a daughter, who is really, really struggling with an eating disorder right now.  It’s wreaking havoc on the entire family since […]

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Check

Laundry done. Curtains washed and rehung. Bedding washed and bed remade. Bedroom dusted and vacuumed. Living room dusted and vacuumed. Dishes done. Kitchen wiped down. Dinner defrosting. Check. Check. Check. I’m fucking exhausted.

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Important stuff, guys.

Please contact your congressman (you can find out who by putting in your zip code at www.house.gov) and ask him/her to support this act. It would grant money for research and treatments of eating disorders, grant money to schools for programs to support Eating Disorder sufferers, and most importantly it would require insurance companies to […]

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I want more pinkness!

I totally want this http://www.foryournymphomation.com/agirlsbestfriend.htm And this, too. http://www.foryournymphomation.com/heart_shaped_box.htm In pink. Time to go suck dick on the corner…

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And…

Don’t forget to run over to Pleasurists and vote on the entry you think most deserves to win a Lelo toy!

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We went out last night. We are hungover today. The end.

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Question!

Has anybody read this? I’m very curious… Return to the Chateau – Sequel to The Story of O – EdenFantasys

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The Grumps

So I straightened and vacuumed the living room, wiped down the kitchen, got most of the laundry started… Taylor is at the garage working on the bike… I’m bored. There are a ton of things I could do but I just don’t feel like it. I hate days like this. I woke up before I wanted […]

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Fatty D is pissed. We should ALL be pissed.

I don’t normally do this but I read this on Twitter earlier and saw red. From April Flores – otherwise known as Fatty D (for Delicious) – who happens to be one of the hottest women I’ve ever seen: “BBW’s will “blow any loser for the cost of a Wendy’s Baconator.” This fat girl is […]

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Yanno…

I’m really having a good week. The Love Balm rocks. Taylor is going to get a new toy soon. I got two Evolved toys in the mail today. I’m getting a new paddle! AND a Laya Spot. I won a contest (my first since 1982!!!!) over at Catalina Loves. She rocks, btw. I have the […]

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