Holiday Phunk

I?  Have a depression on. It’s December 19th and my tree isn’t up yet, nor are there any garlands or snowmen or twinkling lights in my house. I’m doing it today.  That Teen is with his gramma for the weekend so I’d like him to come home to some Christmas spirit but I just… I’m […]

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Random blah blah blah

Soooo…. I’m sitting here with bleach on my roots on the pink part of my hair, knowing it’s going to be an all day project to get the pink pink again and touch up the dark.  Each step requires separating hair, applying product only where it needs to be, waiting, washing, completely drying, then doing […]

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Lazy Caramel Coffee Day

I woke up this morning to a little winter wonderland. The first snow of the year. I love snow, especially in November, December and January. By February and March I’m tired of it but early in winter? It excites me every time. It’s insulating, snow.  You feel like you’re in your own quiet little world. […]

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Tidbits

Completely random thoughts with no redeeming value what so ever. I am such a bad blogger.  I just don’t give a shit if you’re bored.  I swear, I will try to be more exciting… later.  Some time.  Maybe. It always sort of amazes me when people actually notice things about other people.  Not things folks […]

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Wasted Day?

Such an odd day I am having. I slept until eleven o’clock – a rarity for me these days.  That Teen is at his girlfriend’s house, Taylor is working and I started the day cleaning and somehow ended up with every rechargeable toy I own plugged in and charging. It is hard to clean around […]

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Fuzzy

Just…  yanno…  fyi?  Mondays suck. I hate Mondays. So. busy. So. much. to. do. Headache. Ow. On a happy note, I ran to the store on my lunch and bought a fuzzy robe with a hood to wear while I work. I was going to get a Snuggie thing but the whole ass hanging out, […]

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Sunday Scribbles

I’m sitting outside on my balcony. Yes, in November.  Remember when Taylor put up that awning for me and built me in a desk?  As Fall approached, we also closed the space in.  We used that window plastic stuff, a layer inside and out, so I can still completely see out and get any sunlight […]

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Plans

So we’re still not entirely sure where we’re going for our mini vacation.  We’re thinking about staying closer to home – which will mean less time on the road, more time relaxing. I do know it’s going to be uber romantic, though. I must have the romance!  Heh. Today I got a HUGE order of […]

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Sorry

You know what? I am tired, tired up to my fucking eyebrows, of people who do not know how to apologize. When you have done something that insults someone, hurts someone, angers someone, bothers someone, when you have fucked up and been called on it and you need to apologize, you fucking apologize. You do […]

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Stop. Brew. Fill. Sink. Breathe.

That is exactly how my immediate future is looking. It’s been a hectic day and I am tired and I can’t stop working even though I stopped working three hours ago so I need to consciously STOP. Go into the kitchen. Brew up a strong, rich cup of Sumatran coffee.  Fill the tub. Toss in a […]

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Sleep

I cannot fucking sleep lately. I get tired. I even fall asleep some nights at a reasonable hour. But I cannot stay asleep. Every time a dog barks or whines, I wake up. Every time a cat jumps on the bed, I wake up. Every time Taylor coughs or rolls over, I wake up. Every […]

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Sunday Scribbles

I love Sundays. I hate Sundays. I love that we’re pretty much always lazy on Sundays, staying in our jammies and, half the time, staying in bed for the bulk of the day.  It’s relaxation, down time, recharge time. And yet, at the same time, Monday looms large and unfriendly on the horizon. Bah. I […]

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Friends

Last night, we went over to a friend’s house for dinner. This friend is on parole – for a non violent offense, if that matters to the judgmental folks out there – and he recently got in an accident on his motorcycle. The road he was driving on had unmarked construction and he drove his bike right […]

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Time

So my stress level lately is off the fucking charts. It’s hard to explain why, hard to pinpoint any one thing as it all seems to build up. Most days, I can’t even tell if the thing I’m feeling stressed about is actually what I am stressed about. You know what I mean?  Like you […]

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Ch-ch-ch-changes

I’m not sure if I’m happy or sad with my new theme change.  I love my old theme.  Seriously LOVE it. But the people who created it were dumb assholes from the beginning who filled it with all sorts of code that even people who work with code for a living couldn’t figure out and […]

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Sunday Scribbles

The glasses are dark, your lips get chapped, there is sweat in the crotch of your jeans but you toss your head back and worship the hot, golden sun and endless blue sky.

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Abuse

Those of us in D/s relationships have super human anti abuse cloaks which can be defeated only by unobtainium stolen from giant blue fairy things.

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Seriously? Seriously???

n the real world, you can have a good reason – or even a flimsy excuse – once in awhile. But if you do it every day, eventually people roll their eyes and think you’re full of shit and lazy.

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Sunday Scribbles

So now I’m sitting here, knowing I should write a review but my coffee mug is stone cold and my brain is just… tired.

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Randomness

…a mug of vanilla coffee, throw a handful of vanilla salts in the bath water and let the warmth ease my muscles and soothe my soul – not that either are very sore but, still, some ease and soothing can never hurt.

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My Name is Boxxy

I rather miss my boxxy. This is the closest I could get…

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Sunday Rambling

Seemingly endless days where the sun is shining, a breeze is blowing, the clock is ticking slowly, the coffee is flowing freely, strong and dark. The music keeps me company while I sit outside, keeping Taylor company while he tinkers with the bike.

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Blah-titude

I have nothing to say.

Really. Nothing.

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Flower Power

It seems like every time I try a new massage oil I go a little bit gaga.  I can’t help it. I like massage oils, especially good ones.  This time, however, I’m beyond gaga and am somewhere close to…  mooning.  Swooning.  Calf-eyed love. Flower Power Teasing is the best massage oil I have ever tried. […]

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Hahahahahahhahahaha HA

“I disagree . you’re a cunt biscuit. FUckity duck licker whoredoodle. yes yes yes! shut up, dog breath”

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