Why is it so cool when “mean” guys do sweet things?

Have I mentioned that I love lazy Sundays in bed?
I do.
This morning I got up, let the dogs out, made some coffee, let the dogs back in, grabbed my mug and headed back to the bedroom.  Taylor was like…  ”You’re going back to bed????” and before I could even say anything, he was like…  ”well, [...]

Today?  Included motorcycle rides.  BBQ.  Ass sex.  Cappuccino.  Nachos.  And a bite on the back of my neck that dropped me to my knees and had me feeling around for blood.  After which I called Taylor Edward and asked when he was going to start sparkling.
Then I ran for my life.
Not bad for a Monday.
I [...]

So I was cruising around FetLife, looking for something to inspire a rant or some deep thought or…  whatever.  Cuz, yanno, life in the Taylor y puss casa has been damned quiet and normal and uneventful for a damned long time.  (For those who may not know, puss = me.  Taylor calls me puss)  And [...]

Holy shit, I have had a busy week.  From a busy weekend – other than Sit-Around-Sunday – right into a busy week.
Work has gotten more intense as I take on a few extra responsibilities – not that I’m complaining! I have a dream jobby sort of thing!  But it’s left me with little time to [...]

I have nothing worthwhile to say today.  I’m tired. Worn out.  Sunburned to the lobster point. Quite spacey. Dehydrated a bit.  Achy.  Unfit company for intelligent human beings.
I’ll share some pics, though
This is Lake Michigan. We rode along the lake for a bit yesterday on our 5 hour bike ride.

So last night I ran Taylor a bath loaded with bubbles, handed him an erotic book and left him to soak for a bit.  While he was in there, I scrambled around lighting a zillion candles (including a massage candle) in our bedroom and putting a soft red sheet over the regular bedding to protect [...]

So last year (there I go, doing it again.  I start so many blog posts with “so…”. It’s like I was in the middle of a conversation with y’all, got distracted and came right back to it like I never stopped. Heh)
Anyhow.  Last year, Taylor saw some guy giving away a shed on Craigslist or [...]

(Were you humming along with the title?  I was.)
Taylor and I were talkin’ this morning.  I was telling him about a blog I read and how I used to get all insecure when I read it, like I wasn’t doing it as “right” as this person was.  How even when they had struggles it was [...]

 
Yeah, I got some.  In fact, I slept until nearly one in the afternoon today.  But why, you may ask, when I went to bed at like….  oh…  NINE last night?
 
In a word — Taylor.
See, I’m out of ambien.  This is a huge bummer because I’m a chronic insomniac (and have been most of my [...]

Grocery shopping stresses me out.
Not the actual shopping bit.  Picking out the food is sorta fun.  But then?  You have to unload the cart.  Bag the food.  Put the bags in your cart.  Take the bags out of the cart and put them in the car.  Take them out of the car.  Trudge them up [...]

So after a Teen free week, life is back to normal.
Back to grabbing a robe before I get up to make coffee.  Back to tucking the princess satchel back into my room rather than leaving it out.  Back to not forgetting to put the toys away when I’m done with them.  And back to no [...]

I recently won a contest over at CatalinaLoves by guessing who the naked person in some naked pictures was.  (See?  It pays to troll FetLife for hot pics to drool over.  You can win stuff by knowing just whose breasts you’re looking at!)  For my prize I got a really cute spanking DVD called Posterior [...]

So last night I gave Taylor a bath.  Nothing unusual there, since he nearly always wants me to scrub him when he bathes.
After the bath, though, he started to get a little frisky; neck kissing and boobie groping and all that good stuff.  When I noticed him getting a hard on I was like…  Hmmm… [...]

So I straightened and vacuumed the living room, wiped down the kitchen, got most of the laundry started…
Taylor is at the garage working on the bike…
I’m bored.
There are a ton of things I could do but I just don’t feel like it.
I hate days like this.
I woke up before I wanted to and I think it [...]

Kaya wrote a post today that has me thinking. (She actually wrote a couple posts this week that have me thinking.  Sitting down to write my thoughts just ain’t been happening – but the thoughts are there none-the-less.) She followed up on her blog post with a FetLife post, as well.
Curious?
I’ll go make some tea [...]

I”m not much of a fan of morning sex.
Don’t get me wrong.  Every time we have morning sex, I’m in heaven all day.  I just loahte waking up.  I don’t wake up well.  Someone touching me when I’m waking up makes me want to kill them; stab them right thru the eye with the closest [...]

Taylor is thiiiiiiiiis close to having the bike put back together and running for the season and, guess what?
They’re forcasting snow for Saturday and Tuesday.  
Whiskey Tango Foxtrot?????
Wisconsin sometimes sucks ass.
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I told Taylor to shut up this morning and had a damned fit over absolutely nothing.
There are times I am very glad he’s not easily [...]

Bunch of hooplah over on FetLife.  What’s new, right?  
I’m extremely stressed out over the constant slavier-than-thou bullshit I see all over the place.
I’m not a fucking slave, god damn it.  I don’t have to behave the way you do, the way the folks in Laura Antoniou’s books do or the way Master Meatmeister said a [...]

So Coyote’s Kitten wanted to know how long Taylor and I have been engaged and if we have a date set.
How sad is it that I had to look thru my old Yahoo 360° blog to find the answer? Lol.
We got engaged in November of 2005.  
These are the rings he bought me in December [...]

I love Taylor. I love where we are. I love that we’ve been together so long. I love the depth and security and connection, the knowing each other so damned well.
But sometimes…
I get crush envy.
I think I’d like to feel, just for one day, those feelings I felt on our first day [...]

The new place; especially since I could make it look the same but be my own.  Mine, mine, mine!
Taylor for letting me do it even though it wasn’t really in our budget at the moment.
A Small Orange for being so cheap and full of good support!  Thinking about changing?  You can enter LookingUp as a [...]

Our anniversary is coming up.  We’ve known each other eleven years.  We’re going into our eighth spring together.
One thing that’s always there, no matter the other issues, is love. Love and the special connection we’ve shared from the very beginning.  From the first moment, the first meeting of eyes, the first breath.

“ The  fall of snow is not only an event, it is a magical event. You go to bed in one kind of a world and wake up in another quite different, and if this is not enchantment then where is it to be found?
 ~J.B. Priestley

I love snow.
I love sweaters and long johns and coffee [...]

I love Sundays.
Sundays are our “nothing” days.  We lounge around in jammies and do as little as possible.
Sunday’s in the winter are even better cuz it’s cozy and warm in the house and blustery outside and I feel, more so than any other time, the tight knit closeness of our family.
Today the kids Taylor and [...]