Let’s start remembering it’s about being equal, not the same. Choice, not force

“Life is so constructed that an event does not, cannot, will not, match the expectation.” ~Charlotte Bronte I don’t feel that we should… expect nothing. Or settle for less than we deserve. I do however feel we should… stop expecting people to be more than they are. Stop expecting events in our lives to match [...]

…with a pretty package and a catchy name, but Folgers coffee is still Folgers coffee. Nearly undrinkable, stale and nasty. “Fresh beans” apparantly means nothing but unground beans and the only person who could possibly find them fresh would have to have been stuck on a deserted island for the past ten years with no [...]

“Depression is nourished by a lifetime of ungrieved and unforgiven hurts.” ~Penelope Sweet So I woke up this morning bawling like a baby, ready to crawl into a hole and just die. Don’t know what’s with me lately. I’ve never been depressed before but I’m starting to think that I am SERIOUSLY depressed now. (Yeah, [...]