I haz answers!

March 18, 2009 By In BDSM 5 Comments

Cuz some of you took pity on me and asked me more March questions. :P

CoyotesKitten asked about our dream vacation.  I’m thinking something European.  Paris, Venice, Rome, Ireland, England, Greece…  You know.  Everywhere that’s not american.  Lol.

Just wander around all those old, beautiful places seeing everything we wanted to see, drinking coffee and eating sweets and fucking in churches with no time limit.

That sounds more like winning the lottery and taking off than an actual vacation but it’s a dream vacation so it can go on as long as I want it to! Heh.

Trinity-pup asked when I got into knife play and what I get out of it.

I didn’t get into knife play until Taylor and I got together.  I’d never been with anyone I was willing to risk dying for before Taylor.

And, to me, knife play is always a risk.  We don’t do sensual knife play.  Taylor cuts and pokes and puts the knife in nerve wracking and dangerous places.  (Like up my nose.  In the corner of my eye.  Against my carotid.  Scary places)  I always, at all times, realize he could feasibly slip and I could feasibly end up eyeless or with a split open nose or a gushing artery.  It could happen.  And while I’m not real into risk, I am very, very into the feeling of powerlessness and fear such a risk gives me.  I mean, what am I gonna do?  Move?  Fight him off?  With a knife to my neck and ten slices/nicks/cuts already bleeding?  No thanks.  Lol.

Genuine fear, for me, is hot.  The hottest thing there is.  And knife play is always genuinely scary to me.  So it’s hot. :)

Scalpel play is a different thing though.  When we do that it’s decorative marking.  It hurts a little but it’s not scary.  In fact, it makes me kind of dreamy sleepy cuz it’s so relaxing.

Hope that answers the question well enough.  If not, feel free to ask for clarification.  

And…

let’s see…

KittenCunt asked what, since I do reviews, my favorite five toys are.  I’m going to disinclude BDSM toys here and assume we mean sex toys. (Though, for the record, my favorite BDSM toy is floggers.)

This is a hard question.  My favorite seems to switch from week to week and month to month and mood to mood.

I just reviewed the Liv by Lelo and it is, hands down, my favorite vibrator EVER.  Not powerful enough, possibly, for those who have to have a Hitachi to get off but it’s elegant and sleek and smooth and I love it.

Other than the Liv I think I’d have to say my glass dildo, a basic rubber doc johnson anal plug, the Gigolo g-spot vibe I just reviewed, a very basic bullet/egg type for quickies and the Lucid Dream #54 (also by Doc Johnson).

On my most wanted list? 

I want a WeVibe.  Srsly. Most wanted toy EVER.  

I also want a stainless steel toy.  But, omg, not the Eleven.  I cringe when people talk about that thing.  Have you SEEN that thing?  It’s a beast.  A monster.  

And I want a Lelo Lily or Nea.  

If I had any those…  my list would definitely change.  Lol.

And that’s it for today.  Just anwers cuz it’s already seven o’clock and I need some tea and a bath. 

xoxo



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5 Responses to I haz answers!

  1. *poke poke poke* I asked a question like two days ago in your email box and ya didn’t answer it!
    *stomps and pokes*

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  2. I’m a fan of the WeVibe, it’s great! I’ve been wanting to check out The Cone for ages.

    And thanks for the heads up about Eleven, that thing looks hardcore! I think I could handle it, but it costs even more than a latex jumpsuit!

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