When a sex blogger, sex worker, anyone really, is “outted” to their place of employment the outrage is felt the internet over.

When a woman’s sex life or blog or chatroom activities are used against her in a custody battle, the outrage is felt the internet over.

What goes on in someone’s private life has nothing to do with their job or their family.

People deserve a private life.

Only their job performance should be considered by their employers.  Only their parenting skills should be determined at family court.

And yet…

My job is always mentioned when I do something others don’t like.

It is as if I am different than anyone else, as if the same rules don’t apply to me.

Odd, that.

Odd and extremely hypocritical.

This is my space.  I have a right to personal space and personal opinions.  To BE a person.

Just like you do.  If you believe your job or family to be separate from your blog/online interactions I would very much like to think you would also allow others the same.

I am not a company.

I am a girl with a blog.  Same as you. And you.  And you.

And now?  I am going to take my guy up on the bath he offered earlier. I am going to let him pamper me, touch me, love me…  and start this weekend off in the best way there is.