Morning Sex
I”m not much of a fan of morning sex.
Don’t get me wrong. Every time we have morning sex, I’m in heaven all day. I just loahte waking up. I don’t wake up well. Someone touching me when I’m waking up makes me want to kill them; stab them right thru the eye with the closest sharp thing. Or blunt thing. It doesn’t matter when my anger at having to wake up is upon me.
So we don’t have morning sex very often. And I feel bad because I think morning sex is Taylor’s favorite. He’s a “good” waker upper, you see.
Well, the other day, we had us some fabulous morning sex.
I’d just picked up some new lube cuz I couldn’t find my big bottle of ID (found it later) and a lot of my new toys need the water based lube instead of our usual silicone. And I bought the KY 2 in 1 tingling and warming massage oil and lube package. What can I say? I was at the grocery store and it was cheap. Turns out it works ok. Not great, but better than plain old KY or the warming gel I’ve tried.
Anyhow…
Taylor grabbed a bottle of the tingling stuff and started… rubbing me with it. Long swoops up my belly and over my breasts, then down my belly and along the surface of my vulva. None of that “straight for the clit” stuff. Just long, lazy fondles that tingled!
By the time we were done I was seeing things in a sort of cross eyed haze and ended up laying there in my own goop for a nap. You KNOW it’s good when you don’t care about the goop.
And, yanno, waking up an hour or so later was much more pleasant when my body was feeling so happy and my spirit so sated. Or vice versa. I dunno.
I just realized that morning sex can be fabulous.
And that I should be more open about it, not make him feel like crap for wanting it. That’s my job, right? And it feels shitty that I’ve been making him feel shitty for wanting something that ends up feeling so freaking good.
I need an attitude adjustment.
And I’m thinking…
Keeping that wonderful morning full of warm, sleepy bodies and soft, sweeping touches and building, aching need at the front of my mind just might do it.
Cuz it was good.
And I”m just STUPID for not being receptive to something so fucking good more often.
So. Tattoo it on my forehead, okay?
Morning sex is fucking hot.
Mornings themselves are all that sucks!
Here, morning sex has been the norm for many years…between children and grandchildren and all the other things that intercede in our lives, if we don’t put ourselves first we end up without!
Though breakfast usually ends up being lunch, having dessert first is always great!
alan
I am SO with you on the whole/mornings suck, but morning sex is great! The SO gets around it now by sort of getting me into the happy sex place before I am fully awake, so I wake up feeling all the warm sexy goodness–or sometimes I don’t come fully awake at all. Just roll with it half asleep and curl back into full sleep when it’s over. Lovely…
Jade
I don’t have that half awake thing. Every time I roll over I wake up. Every time Taylor rolls over I wake up. Every time the puppy whines I wake up. Fully up. No lazy, happy, drowsy area. Just awake and pissed about it. So it’s hard for Taylor to get me going while I’m half asleep cuz one touch, one arm around me, one kiss and I”m wide awake and not wanting to be. Lol.
oh lord, I LOVE LOVE LOVE morning sex – and I’m sorta like you- wake really easily and thoroughly ( i get up for work at 3:30 a.m. and never need the alarm LOL)- but those days I’m home, I would KILL for it- never happens.
Best part is when I am still lying there all warm and cuddly and it starts… I can drift, let my mind suspend – sighs…. I literaly could NOT tell you the last time it happened.
Lucky you.
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I like morning sex cause it’s about as close to rape as we can get. I’m mostly asleep and don’t really know what’s going on… Yeah I like that.
Agreed! Morning sex. hella hawt!
To echo everyone else…
I love love LOVE when Master wakes me for morning sex. It has got to be the BEST way to start any given day!
Ok. So I’m the only weird one. Lol.
I actually DID ask for more morning sex a day or so later, though. :)