Comments on: Imperfection http://viewfromthefloor.com/perfection-thy-name-is-not-puss/ A View from the Floor. Life, love, sex, babble, reviews, bdsm, dirty dishes. Thu, 26 Jan 2012 17:53:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: The Butterfly Temptress http://viewfromthefloor.com/perfection-thy-name-is-not-puss/comment-page-1/#comment-281 The Butterfly Temptress Fri, 08 Feb 2008 08:11:35 +0000 http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/02/05/perfection-thy-name-is-not-puss/#comment-281 First of all, please know that you're not alone. I still long for him to use the rope, the belt, or any one of our other deviant tools with me even though I know that maybe it's not so much his style anymore. People change and sometimes it starts being something deeper. The need is there. Lots of needs are there. Overshadowing so many things is the need to have him be the Dominant he once was. It's been so long now that I wonder if it's even possible. I don't ask anymore. I don't mention it to him. I took the colorful ropes and the leash/collar combo off the headboard where they collected dust and put it in the wardrobe. Like kaya, I don't know if I've stopped wanting it or just started getting better at denying it. Stay strong and as I'm trying to do, bring the focus inward. Then all I know to do is hope for the best. First of all, please know that you’re not alone. I still long for him to use the rope, the belt, or any one of our other deviant tools with me even though I know that maybe it’s not so much his style anymore. People change and sometimes it starts being something deeper.

The need is there. Lots of needs are there. Overshadowing so many things is the need to have him be the Dominant he once was. It’s been so long now that I wonder if it’s even possible.

I don’t ask anymore. I don’t mention it to him. I took the colorful ropes and the leash/collar combo off the headboard where they collected dust and put it in the wardrobe. Like kaya, I don’t know if I’ve stopped wanting it or just started getting better at denying it.

Stay strong and as I’m trying to do, bring the focus inward. Then all I know to do is hope for the best.

]]> By: kaya http://viewfromthefloor.com/perfection-thy-name-is-not-puss/comment-page-1/#comment-280 kaya Wed, 06 Feb 2008 13:49:44 +0000 http://aviewfromthefloor.sensualwriter.com/2008/02/05/perfection-thy-name-is-not-puss/#comment-280 I wonder if I just got to a place where I stopped wanting it. Or.. got so good at stuffing it down that I don't feel it anymore. Because I know exactly what you are talking about; that deep, keening NEED. I've felt it, struggled with it, buried it, given in to it, did the whole rainbow of things with it... But I don't feel it that way anymore. I still desire those things, but that twisting, writhing hunger isn't there. I don't even know if that's a good thing or a bad thing. I wonder if I just got to a place where I stopped wanting it. Or.. got so good at stuffing it down that I don’t feel it anymore.

Because I know exactly what you are talking about; that deep, keening NEED. I’ve felt it, struggled with it, buried it, given in to it, did the whole rainbow of things with it…

But I don’t feel it that way anymore. I still desire those things, but that twisting, writhing hunger isn’t there.

I don’t even know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing.

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