” A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”
~Mignon McLaughlin
Still a little dumbfounded by the idea that I’m going to be getting married again.
Thirty six years old, a twelve year old son, two failed marriages behind me… and I’m going to try it again.
Why, you ask?
Because I’ve finally found a man who I manage to fall in love with, over and over and over again – and I don’t ever want that to stop.
Because I’ve finally found someone who can make me belly laugh, who can make me miss him when he’s only been gone an hour, who can make me holler, laugh and cry in a ten minute span…
The reasons are endless and fascinating to me and totally new because, despite the other two marriages, I have NEVER felt this way before.
It’s stupid, I know but…
one of the most romantic movie relationships I’ve ever, ever seen is the one between Katherine Hepburn and Peter Fonda in “On Golden Pond”. I have wanted that for as long as I can remember.
And for the first time, I think I’ve found someone who can give me that.
And that says it all, right there.
Oy, I’m really rambling. Boring y’all to pieces, I’m sure.
Sue me.
Girls get mushy about this shit.
And, yanno what?
So do men, sometimes.
And the fact that Taylor has been leaning over and hugging me and grinning while he says “I’m gonna marry my puss puss” – at least every other day – makes me feel a lot better.
He’s as mushy as I am. :)
So I’ll shush and stop making you all ill and save it for when he gets home and we can be mushy together. Lol.
I just wanted to take a minute to put it out there that I AM as excited as a school girl and GODS it feels good. :) (I actually wanted to write some seriously sappy shit but I’ve gotten too tired to find the right words. I’ll bore you all with that at a later date.)





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