You can’t take it back
I have always been what I call “brutally honest”. I rarely hold back an opinion and will rant passionately about people, things, places, events… And yet I also rarely vent in the heat of the moment. I rarely get angry or upset and spew out the words that are roiling around in my head. I tend to hold things in, think about them a lot, put thoughts together and then go off on a tangent of abstract and indirect ranting. I will run around my house venting and screeching in...
Read MoreHoliday Phunk
I? Have a depression on. It’s December 19th and my tree isn’t up yet, nor are there any garlands or snowmen or twinkling lights in my house. I’m doing it today. That Teen is with his gramma for the weekend so I’d like him to come home to some Christmas spirit but I just… I’m having a hard time finding it this year. The idea of dragging all that stuff out, just to put it away in a couple weeks, is dragging me down. Our house is too small, too cluttered,...
Read MoreSeriously? Seriously???
n the real world, you can have a good reason - or even a flimsy excuse - once in awhile. But if you do it every day, eventually people roll their eyes and think you're full of shit and lazy.
Read MoreRecycled Heaven
It shades me from the sun and allows me to sit out here with the laptop during the day, getting off my desk so I don't feel all trapped and stuck in the same place, day after day, hour after hour. It gives me a place to sit, like tonight, in candlelight with a glass of wine and type away.
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