Abuse
Those of us in D/s relationships have super human anti abuse cloaks which can be defeated only by unobtainium stolen from giant blue fairy things.
Read MorePeeves
So I’m cruising around FetLife this morning and I’m all blinking at my monitor, making gaping fish faces and pretty much sitting here slack jawed. Holy hell. There are a whole lot of people I like on Fet but, for the most part, it’s become a cesspit of retardation. I read no less than ten posts in my short wanderings over there where someone used the lispy text “twue” or “swave”, usually both in the same sentence. You know, that “You think there...
Read MoreFetLife, Snark and Oreos
So I log in to FetLife today – which I no longer do each and every day cuz I’m flippin’ busy, man – and the first things I see on my front page? “People who think dog rape is a-ok” and “Another day, another shoot at Kink”. Wandering over to my groups I found “Is slave a role or a status?” and “Slavery? For real or playing?” and “Who shaves?” and “What are the symptoms of sub drop?” And I’m like… it’s no fucking wonder I don’t log in much. Kink dot com...
Read MoreWotD: Gobsmacking-ist
So, if you follow kaya around on Fetlife you’re bound to come across some of the funniest and snarkiest and gobsmacking-ist topics. Which, of course, make the best blog fodder. Today I came across one dealing with rules; Masters rules vs community/group rules and which rules take precedence. And I’m all… Duh. Why the fuck would I be involved with a group that went against Taylor’s rules in the first place? Another useless topic because those with any sense would simply leave the group...
Read MoreMe first, me first, me first!
So. FetLife. Again, it has me pondering. I may not participate there much but, I swear to gods, whenever I visit I end up with a blog post. Lately there have been some discussions about who comes first; child, master or self. And I’m kind of floored at the responses. I mean, first of all, the woman who started one of the posts has grown kids. Gone, out of the house, fully capable of taking care of themselves kids. And she says they’ll always come first. Another woman has a...
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