A million small pricks will damage the heart as much as a single large blow.  More, maybe. Insomnia sucks.  Cycles of sleeping too much and not sleeping enough leave you looking and feeling  ragged and blue. Make up doesn’t help Spring makes my heart smile Open windows and breezes make Sunday mornings in bed a

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I rarely review BDSM gear.  I am a BDSM gear snob.  Taylor makes all our BDSM gear, from floggers to whips to paddles to cuffs.  I’m spoiled.  I know exactly how good, quality, hand sewn BDSM gear feels and holds up.  I know what it’s like to have suspension cuffs made for my wrists and

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There is always the risk, the risk that this one thing or this cumulative pile of things will be the one that hurts too much, that breaks me – body, heart, mind… me.

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