A Letter to No One

November 14, 2011 By In Dirty Dishes No Comment

Times of extreme selfishness generally tend to cause extreme misery.

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You can’t take it back

October 3, 2011 By In Babble No Comment

I have always been what I call “brutally honest”.  I rarely hold back an opinion and will rant passionately about people, things, places, events… And yet I also rarely vent in the heat of the moment.  I rarely get angry or upset and spew out the words that are roiling around in my head.  I

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Focus

December 18, 2010 By In Babble 2 Comments

When I talk, especially when I’m excited, I am very animated.  In fact, candid pictures of me generally turn out awful; I am too in motion for the camera to catch. I often come across as hyper to people who know me online or who have only seen me in groups where I tend to

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Sorry

November 10, 2010 By In Dirty Dishes 7 Comments

You know what? I am tired, tired up to my fucking eyebrows, of people who do not know how to apologize. When you have done something that insults someone, hurts someone, angers someone, bothers someone, when you have fucked up and been called on it and you need to apologize, you fucking apologize. You do

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Sex Positive Hypocrite?

July 31, 2010 By In Babble 37 Comments

t’s the buzzword these days. It’s something I’m constantly being accused of not being. It’s, basically, being accepting of other sexualities, genders, kinks, preferences. It’s not ridiculing others for their sexuality, it’s…

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Tentacle Jr

July 18, 2010 By In Reviews 3 Comments

I recently got to review the Tentacle Jr for Eden Fantasys – another fucking awesome and fantasy inducing dildo from Whipspider Rubberworks.  The review isn’t live yet but I wanted to share the pictures, at least. The Jr is similar to the original Tentacle only smaller, slimmer, with a less extreme hook to it, a

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So yeah, it’s “your body”. But are you sending a different message?

July 8, 2010 By In Babble 146 Comments

Ok I get: You didn’t want to be humped in a bar. The guy had the impression it was ok to hump you in a bar. You feel the need to bitch about it. I understand all of the above. What I don’t get: How it went from dancing to humping. What gave him the

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Frightening, isn’t it? His view

August 11, 2008 By In BDSM 9 Comments

What needs to be understood here, is the fact that from day one, I have done what’s best for my family. Even though what I want, what I decide, what makes me happy is the priority for those in my home, I put the good of my family first. This is what has allowed us

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