You can’t take it back
I have always been what I call “brutally honest”. I rarely hold back an opinion and will rant passionately about people, things, places, events… And yet I also rarely vent in the heat of the moment. I rarely get angry or upset and spew out the words that are roiling around in my head. I tend to hold things in, think about them a lot, put thoughts together and then go off on a tangent of abstract and indirect ranting. I will run around my house venting and screeching in...
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When I talk, especially when I’m excited, I am very animated. In fact, candid pictures of me generally turn out awful; I am too in motion for the camera to catch. I often come across as hyper to people who know me online or who have only seen me in groups where I tend to feed off the energy of others, pick up on it and react to it by being more energized and animated myself. At home, though… I am a very still person. My brain goes a million miles a minute most times but my body is...
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You know what? I am tired, tired up to my fucking eyebrows, of people who do not know how to apologize. When you have done something that insults someone, hurts someone, angers someone, bothers someone, when you have fucked up and been called on it and you need to apologize, you fucking apologize. You do not try to re-explain yourself. You do not hand out a bunch of excuses as to why you fucked up. You do not try to change the person’s mind and get them to realize they’re wrong...
Read MoreSex Positive Hypocrite?
t's the buzzword these days. It's something I'm constantly being accused of not being. It's, basically, being accepting of other sexualities, genders, kinks, preferences. It's not ridiculing others for their sexuality, it's...
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