Attention Nazi
Attention. We all want some sometimes. Some of us want more than others. You know the type. Attention whores. Everything they do is done to garner attention. It’s another thing I just don’t get. Now I’m not going to say I never look for attention. We all do. Blogging itself is an attention seeking behavior. We put our lives, our pictures, our thoughts and even our sexual escapades out there for everyone to see, for everyone to comment on. Hell, I even sell...
Read MorePretty pretty princess (a rant)
Bunch of hooplah over on FetLife. What’s new, right? I’m extremely stressed out over the constant slavier-than-thou bullshit I see all over the place. I’m not a fucking slave, god damn it. I don’t have to behave the way you do, the way the folks in Laura Antoniou’s books do or the way Master Meatmeister said a slave does at the last seminar you went to. I’m just a girl, submissive in nature when in the presense of those more dominant than I am, who...
Read MoreThe World in the Plastic Bubble
I’ve been ranting for years about the safety police when it comes to BDSM. I’ve long been a proponent of being aware of the risk and making your own decisions; of not sticking your nose in and telling other people what they “must” do in order to be safe. I’m really starting to get aggravated by the safety police attitude in the rest of the world, too. Commercials constantly telling me I should use such and such cleaner on all my surfaces and all my kid’s...
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