I have always been what I call “brutally honest”.  I rarely hold back an opinion and will rant passionately about people, things, places, events… And yet I also rarely vent in the heat of the moment.  I rarely get angry or upset and spew out the words that are roiling around in my head.  I

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Massage candles come in all sorts of price ranges and, though you would think they would all be pretty much the same, experience has shown me this is not the case. All massage candles have a soy wax base.  Soy wax melts at a lower temperature than paraffin or beeswax so it is ideal for this use.

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I’m sitting outside on my balcony. Yes, in November.  Remember when Taylor put up that awning for me and built me in a desk?  As Fall approached, we also closed the space in.  We used that window plastic stuff, a layer inside and out, so I can still completely see out and get any sunlight

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I’ve reviewed Jimmyjane candles before; a couple of Embers and a couple of Afterglows.  I still wanted this sampler pack simply because it was a chance to try many scents all at once, without the commitment of having to use up – or throw away if I don’t like it – a large candle. The

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I am addicted to ceramic sex toys.  I’m okay with this addiction.  Not only are they useful, but they look quite pretty and are at least as worthy of collecting as tea cups or state spoons, right?  Right. So this is my collection of Lovemoiselle ceramic vibrators: The Doriane, Juliane and Cecile.  Such pretty, feminine

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The Romp.  The Romp.  So much has been written about it, so many have swooned.  I am a huge fan of Nobessence (makers of the Romp) myself, have swooned over many of their products.  The Romp, though? Eh, not so much. I’m going to start out with what I do love.  I love the color

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Oh boy. This is a hard review to write.  I’ll be up front right from the get go and say, yes, I have compared this to the Eroscillator and yes, it loses in a blazing crash of defeat when you make that comparison.  I’m going to try to review the Better Sex Synergy Pleasure System

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I rather miss my boxxy. This is the closest I could get…

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t’s the buzzword these days. It’s something I’m constantly being accused of not being. It’s, basically, being accepting of other sexualities, genders, kinks, preferences. It’s not ridiculing others for their sexuality, it’s…

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Let’s start remembering it’s about being equal, not the same. Choice, not force

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I have come to the conclusion that rabbit vibes are not for me.  Sure, there are a few I like but they are the rare occurrence rather than the norm. The Rosebud looked like it was going to be ideal; short shaft, big clit stimulator, a rotating shaft, no insane beads or discs and previous reviews said

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Weekend? Fantastic. Work after a three day weekend? Insane.

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I’m a huge fan of both Shunga and Kama Sutra products so when I decided I wanted some bath salts I had a hell of a time deciding between the two of them.  Both come in the Ocean scent I wanted, both color your water a gorgeous blue, both contain many kinds of salt —

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What needs to be understood here, is the fact that from day one, I have done what’s best for my family. Even though what I want, what I decide, what makes me happy is the priority for those in my home, I put the good of my family first. This is what has allowed us

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“It is not true that equality is a law of nature. Nature has no equality. It’s sovereign law is subordination and dependence.” ~Marquis de Vauvenargues Oh, how I believe this! Not necessarily that man is superior to woman, though in my own relationship I am the inferior partner. But that in all relationships one leads

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