Teen Sex
So some of you follow me on Twitter and probably saw the announcement the other day but, in case you didn’t, That Teen had teh secks.
My little baby boy.
Halp!
I knew it was coming. He’s been dating his girlfriend for three, four months now. He comes home with hickies on his belly. I gave him a condom a month ago and told him to come to me if he needed more.
Well. He did.
Halp!
Don’t get me wrong. I’m so, so, so fucking grateful I have the sort of relationship with him that allows him to come to me. I’m proud of him for having done so. I feel like I’ve done well.
And yet I’m a nervous wreck, especially with this trip to NY and Philly (for the April Flores Love Toy Art Show, in case I haven’t talked about it yet. Any of you in those areas should come!) He’s staying with my mom but he still gets a few hours after school to hang with friends and the girlfriend and I’m terrified he’ll let himself into the house and fuck his brains out.
I need to get him a case of condoms before we leave. And pray that since he’s old enough to have teh secks he’s old enough not to burn the house down while we’re gone.
Halp!
How odd this all makes me feel. Odd and old.
Good lord! Even a supportive mom like you is bound to be stuck by this situation; we all know our children do it, but we never want to think about it, so it’s tough. D:
Have you tried talking to him about STD testing and other forms of birth control as a back-up method? …and he does know how to put a condom on correctly, right? Drill that in to his brain before you leave!
…better yet, change the locks on your door. >:P
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Yup, we’ve had all the talks. He and his girlfriend are going to planned parenthood on their next school break, together, to get her on some sort of back up.
Which will reassure me a bit. But just a bit. Ack!
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Wow- i know it is bound to happen and all but i just wanna run thinking about my teen. She is only 13 (but considering i lost my virginity then i am certainly not naive) but it is so freaking different when you are the parent and you’re worried about providing them with the knowledge and birthcontrol to ensure they are sae without feeling like you are OK’ing them to go have sex. Perhaps you could be so kind as to give me some insight on how the condoms were initially brought up and how you handled that with your son? Was it something you went to him with after acknowledging the hickies? My daughter is awfully young and i am not certain i i should be making something like that available or waiting until she comes to me (because what if she does not?)…
i have thought about just kinda having them around where she could take them if needed but i am so unsure of mysel when it comes to this stuff. i certainly do not want to give her the impression that i think she is having sex because i know she would probably be very defensive and besides i am 99.99999 % sure she is not what so ever but i am worried about preparing her and ensuring she does not follow in my ootsteps and become a mom at 17…
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I was so proud when my son (daughter married as a virgin) came to me and said mom we are having sex. Not because they were having sex BUT because, they did it RIGHT. It gave me the opportunity to talk to both HIM and her and ensure they had condoms B/c etc to prevent a teen pregnancy or an STD. Having sex is no biggie have a kid pregnant at 17…is.
I think its wonderful that He came to you, but take this opportunity to talk and ensure they are using precautions..:)
In the history of the world it is not entirly unknown for teenagers to have sex.
He is normal, Stop worrying.
Make sure they are safe.
Always safe
I am so in awe right now. Mainly because since I am a mom too I think of you as being like me. This gives me a new perspective on you. My mom and I had a relationship like yours with your teen. I think you should be super proud! Really, I mean that. I see this and just wow, I can’t believe how fast time goes by. I know I will be devastated if my girls came to me, but then I guess it is because they are girls.
Plus I really hope one day to have this same bond. I want my kids to come to me when they are ready to take that plunge. At least then I can be sure to prep them safely. This post really made me smile!